Intimacy Coaching for
Individuals and Couples
Humans are wired for connection, intimacy, touch. It is weaved into the very fabric of our DNA (just look at the wild miracle that are mirror neurons!). There are so many paths that might lead to connection and erotic satisfaction, but for many of us the roads to get there are not linear nor clear. The roadmaps that society has laid out may not always feel quite right and often leave room for much more to be desired. If you've been wanting to deepen your relationship to self, erotic, and other you've come to the right place.
Perhaps You've...
Come out later in life and have nerves around dating.
Learned you're neurodivergent and the thought of dating and intimacy feels daunting.
Struggled to explore sex and intimacy much and want to create more space in your life for pleasure.
Realized you have been performing eroticism instead of embodying it.
Noticed you struggle to identify where your pleasure lives even though you can easily pin point and tend to the other's desire.
Emerged out of a difficult period of time in life where pleasure was not given space and you want to integrate this part of yourself into your life again.
Become more curious about a kink or fetish but have struggled to find the right environment to explore it.
Felt the excitement and fire in your partnership has waned and you want to find ways to feel more connected and make play more sustainable.
Been shamed for your preferences and want to build confidence around your wants.
There are so many reasons as to why you may have landed here and I'm interested in learning your story. Whatever your 'why' may be, if your goal is to more deeply understand your desires, connect with your pleasure in more embodied ways, explore sex without shame or guilt, communicate and navigate relationships with more authenticity and less performance then I'm here to support you on this branch of your journey.
Explore With A is For The:
Straight and queer folks
Non-monogamous and monogamous
Neurodivergent and neurotypical
Able bodied and disabled
Kinky and the vanilla
Experienced and inexperienced
This space is for people from all walks of life navigating the messiness and wonder of the human experience. For those who feel like they want to expand their relationship to the erotic. Explore with A is an offering for those who are open minded and ready to grow their capacity to experience pleasure, vulnerability, and intimacy.
Explore
Have you felt unsure of what it is what you desire when it comes to relational and physical intimacy?
Or may you have an idea, but arent quite sure how to safely follow your curiosities to follow the threads. Perhaps when you've tried you experience judgments or difficult emotions that keep you from embracing your curiosities.
With Explore sessions we focus on exploring your innermost desires and building safety within yourself in order to feel grounded enough to connect with all parts of yourself without shame, fear, or judgment.
EXPAND
Do you struggle to find the right words? Maybe you plan the conversation and tell yourself you'll bring it up 'this time', but when the moment comes you freeze? Or maybe you can find the right words, but struggle to show up and communicate authentically due to fear of what may happen if you truly remove the mask?
In Expand sessions we focus on communication skills, move through and build understanding around feelings that may come up in the process of externalizing what is alive within you. Vulnerability can be scary, but the rewards on the other side of that fear are the rewards of living authentically and deepening connections .
embody
Do you want to try or practice something in a safe environment? Do you want to work through feelings that may arise when trying something new? Perhaps you want to feel more mastery in a particular activity or have someone teach you a skillset in a more literal way.
In Embody sessions I have a bit more of a hands on approach for those who want to get more comfortable becoming acquainted with something new, build mastery around physical skills, and explore the ways the body and mind react to new sensations,.
*Due to the more immersive nature of embody sessions 2 explore + 2 expand sessions are a minimum pre-requisite for me to get to know you and assess your readiness.
Starting Packages
2 for 1500 4 for 2500 6 for 3500
Sessions follow a variable length format and range from 1.5-4 hours pending what is needed.
After the initial 2-4 session assessment period, we will co-create a customized plan tailored to meet your specific goals.
My Coaching Philosophy
The Approach
Relationships and intimacy are like a dance.
While we all have our unique rhythms, ways of interpreting music, and individual paths leading into that coveted 'flow' state it can certainly help to have someone there to help us understand certain movements and dances so that we can move forward with more self awareness, embodiment, and confidence.
My approach incorporates my skillsets of both being a psychotherapist and an erotic worker who has cultivated intimate relationships and supported individuals+couples over the last 15 years. My areas of expertise have offered me a unique perspective into what it means to be human; particularly, what it means to be a someone that experiences erotic and relational desire.
While I have several degrees and work as a psychotherapist which no doubt influences how I coach, this offering is not psychotherapy. You also may have noticed that my credentials are not publicly listed nor is my face clearly shown in my photo - this is due to stigma and the ways erotic workers can be systemically othered at best or at worst punished for the work they do. This makes it difficult to bridge the gap between the two worlds. While my skills, wisdom, and approach are all valid and have been invaluable in the ways I have supported folks through their unique journeys; broader society still hasn't caught up to wrapping its mind around these types of offerings. My coaching via Explore with A is an attempt to merge my two worlds and nearly 15 years of expertise in order to offer a truly unique experience to the more open minded.
Should you wish to book with me for coaching I am happy to further discuss my credentials and any other questions you may have via a 20 minute consult call which you can schedule here.
Cheekier Offerings
While coaching sessions can be fun, light, full of excitement and butterflies the focus is predominantly on your goals and potentially doing a bit more depth work, which will take some work and processing.
If you are seeking something lighter that offers more reprieve, fantasy, and full immersion I have other offerings.
